Hiding behind anger and unresolved issues.

It is a safe assumption to make that instead of facing someone we rather hide behind anger at them then deal with the situation.

There is always two sides to every coin but if you only voice your side and stick with you are always right instead of listening to the other person then you have not really listen.

All you have done is put up walls between you and never being dealt with. Which is not healthy in any relationship. I am not saying one person is right above the other I am saying both need to communicate and hear each person out.

Seek counseling if you need to there is nothing wrong with seeking help from others. Go to your pastor if you don’t want to go to counselor. What you do not want is to push the person away from you for the rest of your life. Live with the regret on not working things out and resolving the issue.

We are not promised tomorrow so do not waste another day of discord with them. Take a step toward healing and restoration. We should be enjoying the time we have with each other. So, do not waste another moment being angry and letting issues keep building and never resolving them. Let today be the day you fix the hurt and pain and broken heart. Restore a stronger bond of love towards one another and amend the broken fences between you. Let nothing stand in your way of repairing the relationship with the person.

Pray and ask God to help you both. He is the ultimate healer and He wants you to have peace and love towards one another.

Jeremiah 30:17 KJV

“For I will restore health unto thee, and I will heal thee of thy wounds, saith the LORD; because they called thee an Outcast, saying, This is Zion, whom no man seeketh after.”

God bless you and your loved ones.

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