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In chapter 16 you see the lack of faith both Sarai and Abram had in God.
Sarai had yet to have a child and isntead of waiting on the Lord she took matters in her own hand. She gave her husband Hagar a handmaid (servant) to her husband to lay with to bare a child.
Abram listened to his wife and obeyed her command to lay with Hagar. He didn’t seek out God or say no but simply listened to his wife. He submitted to her and doing as she asked.
My bible says for verses: 1-6 Ancient documents reveal that when a woman could not provide her husband with a child, she could give her female slave as a wife and claim the child a union as her own. While Hagar is not on equal standing with Sarai, her status does change when she becomes a slave wife. If she produces the heir, she could be the primary wife in the eyes of society. According to verses 4-5, in Hagar’s opinion Sarai had been demoted. The Hebrew word translated despised means “to be treated lightly or with contempt.”
Often times we want to take matters into our own hands and not wait on the Lord. When we do that we face with the consequences of our actions. So trust and wait on the Lord and His timing.
There is much that has come to be since Sarai and Abram not waiting and trusting in God but taking matters into their own hand and Hagar giving birth to Ishmael.
Ishmael you will see later on in Genesis, he had twelve sons, who became the founders of so many Arab tribes or colonies, the Ishmaelites, who spread over the wide desert spaces of Northern Arabia from the Red Sea to the Euphrates (Genesis 37:25, 27, 28; 39:1), “their hand against every man, and every man’s hand against them.” (The King James Bible Dictionary).
One choice can change everything. It takes but one decision and your life is changed forever. I’ve come to be more aware of how things could have been if things went a different way and yet it all was meant to be the way it was. It is why you cannot go backwards in time to change it.
For instance the attack on Pearl Harbor could have taken more lives if there were more men on board, seeing as it was Sunday most of the men were at church less lives where taken that day. That does not mean it was okay for the other lives to be taken only that if another day was chosen where the men where not at church then the fleet and all its men could have been lost. One choice one decision one course can could have changed the outcome of what happen that day. Gettysburg Stone Wall Jackson of the Southern Army was killed 3 days before Gettysburg. Joshua Chamberlain of the Northern Army was at Gettysburg and afterwards the battle there they were sent to Little Round top to rest from the battle that had just taken place at Gettysburg. They had no idea the south was going to send troops through Little Round top. So what men he had left he charged down the mountain to defend it. They had to hold their ground for if they didn’t it would be over and the south would win.
Small moments of time might not seem like they matter but they do. Each time something took place it could have all ended up different if one thing had been different. Next time you feel discouraged remember to wait and have faith and trust in the Lord and His timing for you. He wants to give you abundance and be all you need but you have to surrender to Him first. It’s His will for you not what your will be by making it for yourself.
Will you let Him be in charge of your life or will you be like Sarai and Arbam and take matter into your own hands?
God bless you and your family.